Sunday, June 20, 2010

happy father's day

A few months ago, my father was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer. After several rounds of unsuccessful treatment, he is now on hospice. Since March, I have watched a strong, sharp man change into a frail, confused, helpless man. It's the most difficult thing I have ever dealt with, and that's saying a lot. A terminally ill loved one is a situation I would not wish on anyone. I am in the process of finding a facility where my dad can receive the 24 hour care he desperately needs. I haven't always gotten along with my dad, but none of that matters anymore. Now he's not someone to argue or disagree with, he's someone to help while remembering the times he has helped me.

I love you dad. Happy father's day, for the last time.

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5 comments:

Harriet M. Welsch said...

This is a beautiful tribute to your dad. It made me cry. Happy Fathers' Day to both of you.

Carla said...

I have tears in my eyes too. Love to your Dad from me.

Jennifer King said...

Well, Leigh- that was just awesome! I got choked up. You are so wonderful to take on such a great task. You are truly an inspiration! Call me if you need anything. You guys are in my thoughts.

The Kuntrageous Vegan said...

Oh Leigh; what a hard situation to deal with. I'm glad you're able to be there for your father and that you can let go of any old disagreements. I cannot imagine the heartache you feel.

Leigh said...

Thanks, ladies. It has been a long road, and he's in a lot of pain. I hope he finds peace soon.